if the son wants to have the child but the daughter in law insists on an abortion the in laws should have the right to put a stop to it, as it is not just her child but their son's also. To take a life is the same as murder.
As a MAN my choice was made when I had sex, that is the end of what say I had. If you want a child find a woman WILLING to have a baby and be willing to support it for at least 18 years. I find too many "men" who get some gal pregnant and disappear, fail to support her or the baby, yet they bit*h when she want's an abortion.
so maybe men need to be educated that they are responsible for bringing a child into the world, and that it is a noble thing to raise a family?
The problem is the government has stepped in and basically said "We'll take care of it." And when you do try to make irresponsible men responsible for making a baby, You get a lot of "I can't afford it, It's not fair, you only doing this because I'm a (insert minority group here), You can't send me to jail for not supporting a child, etc.
As I've said my choice ended when I had sex, after that it's her choice.